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Parents of Holly Wells speak out 10 years after she was murdered At 11am on Wednesday, August 21, 2002, and Nicola Wells visited the shallow Fenland grave where the body of their daughter Holly had just been found alongside that of her friend Jessica Chapman.
The girls, both ten, had vanished from the pandora rings price peaceful Cambridgeshire village of Soham a fortnight earlier. For this cheap pandora beads pilgrimage marked the end of hope for Holly's life. It was also, he was wise enough to know, a defining moment in his own. 'The fact is,' he whispered to himself, 'some bastard has thrown my daughter in a ditch as though she were a piece of rubbish. The words were a statement of visceral intent. They said that neither he nor Nicola would be petrified for ever by the grief and rage of those terrible days. Ten years later the hard won happiness of the couple is proof that some promises are too absolute to be broken. 'Time doesn't heal, someone got that wrong,' says. 'It anaesthetises. Grief does not diminish, but you can manage the intensity and learn to live with it. 'Murder has the capacity to destroy more lives than the one taken. I recognised that from the start, so I tried to take control, to make plans and to exert positive thought. 'I clung to my family, my community, my work, sometimes to God and sometimes to a late night tumbler of whisky. I chose to believe in the future, a future that I could craft from the life we once had. Really, all I wanted was for us to be the ones who'd make it out the other side.' His success in this respect is clear. It is there in the easy going affection between, 48, and Nicola, 45, and in their uncomplicated relationship with their son Oliver. It is there in their happy home and a summer social calendar crammed with horse racing, cricket and back garden barbecues. It is there in the endlessly trilling phone of a thriving business. But it has been extraordinarily tough. and Nicola's marriage has been tested physically and emotionally; they were on the breadline for a time and even today the sight of them together can stun a restaurant into silence. Above all they both still long to see, smell and hold the lost child they loved beyond measure. 'She was a star, our daughter,' says , speaking to mark the tenth anniversary of the murders. 'She was the kind of girl who would go to bed with a dictionary so that when I read her Harry Potter she could look up any words that she didn'tuniversity. Frankly, I expected Holly to be the one to rise above ourMediocrity is an unexpected word, but not one he uses pejoratively. He pandora sister charm simply means she was to be the arrow from their bow. says: 'Losing Holly was excruciating, but I have yet to see anything to persuade me that the mother's loss, Nicola's, is not the greater. They say 95 per cent of the parents of murdered children split up. We were determined to be among the five per cent who survive but for a year, perhaps 18 months, I couldn't reach my wife. 'She was lost in a kind of wilderness whereas I was more hard line about my emotions. I wrote a diary, which was an honest assessment of everything we went through and it took me to acceptance faster than Nicola. Then I resented her for not catching up.
'For the first five months after Holly died we broke down together, but after that we processed our grief at different speeds. We stopped going to bed at the same time or even sitting where to purchase pandora charms down for a meal together. Before then [they were teenage sweethearts] we had never gone to bed on a cross word, but there came a point where Nicola started to go up alone and I would stay downstairs with a tumbler of whisky and my thoughts.
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